Relationships are unique like fingerprints or snowflakes but like “True Love,” they all have boundaries. 

 

Husband/wife, mother/daughter, mother/son, father/son, father/daughter, grandparents, friends, coworkers, employer etc. etc.. 

 

When a couple gets married, all of their relationships must change, except their relationship with them “SELF?” 

 

What a son relies on from his mother, for example, changes over his childhood and over time. 

 

If he continues to rely on his mother for certain emotional support up to and after his marriage, this reliance is NOT reflected in his current relationship with his new wife?

However, if his mother moves on, as she should and must, her son then transfers this reliance to his new wife. 

 

In the son’s eyes he’s still the same person, hasn’t changed, but in his wife’s eyes, he’s changed, because their relationship did? 

 

The son, in this example, should have transferred said reliance to him “SELF’ instead of to his new wife? 

 

Moreover the transfer to him “SELF” should have occurred before his marriage? 

 

More examples can be found WITHIN Intelligent Feelings, The Tandem Poetry Series COMPANION? 

 

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